There is a saying that goes, "Don't find trouble unless trouble finds you". Seriously speaking, how many people actually do even follow the saying at all. It seems nowadays that more and more people including moi seem to find trouble just for the sake of finding it. It seems to be getting out of control over the past few weeks. Everyone seems to be having a little bit of issue with each other and when you actually find out the cause of the agitation, you will actually go completely speechless or completely berserk.
Are we trying to get as much drama out of our body system because the fasting month is coming or do we secretly enjoy creating drama in our life? As much as people say that drama is crap and so totally high school, drama will always be part of our daily chores. Drama is totally and completely unavoidable unless you are a submissive person. When you have a group of head-strong, independent and opinionated people in a clique, drama is a must. Unless you know how to be behind the scenes and pull the correct strings to avoid as much drama as possible.
The number one rule to avoid trouble or drama from my point of view, is to be the person with the bigger heart and just walk away from the crap. What I don't understand is why do people always feel the urge to have the final say in everything? I mean, when you already know that you are diving in a situation with a fiercely verbal person. Is it so hard to let that person have the final say eventhough you know that you are right while that person is completely wrong. I mean, sooner or later, people are bound to know that the person did make a mistake and he/she would eventually embarassed themselves to everyone else. Indirectly, wouldn't you be the one having the final say or rather laugh should the situation be like it.
I don't understand certain people who completely dives in to a situation without knowing what is the brief background of the situation. It is totally stupid as you will only make a fool out of yourself. For me, I rather investigate the whole situation and see from all points of view and attack without anyone realising. I prefer it that way, quiet and suttle but you still get the job done and at least ten times better.
As much as I don't like it, but i really have to admit that I live for drama. Without drama or trouble in my life, my life would be completely mundane and stagnant. But at times, it can get really stressful to handle when all the dramas come to you at the same time from every direction. At times, part of me wishes that we can be honest with each other but then I realise that sometimes honesty are the sole reasons as to why people are farther apart from each other.
I just hope that we will be alright with each other. I know we will be.
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